January 2012
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Anonymous asked: fellow "sexuals"? Seriously? I'm confused, this word is terrible, why are you using it
Wow, now I know how aceslutshamers felt when other asexuals were accusing zir of being sexual.
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I understand their line of questioning because there is clearly some serious denial of what qualifies as sexual behavior and sexual attraction. I don’t buy that masturbating is like sneezing or taking a shit. “Fucking yourself” is hardly a metaphor - that’s basically what it is. Just recently someone was saying that they know they’re...
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saltmarshhag:
I understand their line of questioning because there is clearly some serious denial of what qualifies as sexual behavior and sexual attraction. I don’t buy that masturbating is like sneezing or taking a shit. “Fucking yourself” is hardly a metaphor - that’s basically what it is. Just recently someone was saying that they know they’re asexual because when they masturbate, they don’t...
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You know, just while I’m at it.
I hate the Tumblr asexual community. I hate the concept of demisexuality. I hate ~queer heteroromantic asexuals~. I hate people who think not wanting to have sex in and of itself makes them just as oppressed as LGBT people. I hate the appropriation of the pink triangle.
But if there is one thing I hate more than Tumblr...
Anonymous asked: did you get hacked or did you just turn stupid
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You know, just while I’m at it.
I hate the Tumblr asexual community. I hate the concept of demisexuality. I hate ~queer heteroromantic asexuals~. I hate people who think not wanting to have sex in and of itself makes them just as oppressed as LGBT people. I hate the appropriation of the pink triangle.
But if there is one thing I hate more than Tumblr asexuals, it’s off-Tumblr Tumblr...
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Usually I post about asexuals being idiots. Today I’m going to post about sexuals being idiots. This is because, contrary to popular belief, I do not hate asexuals. I hate stupid asexuals — I hate stupid people, period.
So I’m hanging around on a certain anon community when I see a link to a post someone’s made on Plurk (Plurk being what would happen if Twitter and Disqus...
September 2011
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huerca zafada: Internalized Rape Culture and the... →
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desliz:
When I first saw this and this, my first reactions were of amused bafflement. Surely no one could seriously think the utterly unremarkable responses described were indications of a unique orientation, one so very different from that of the dirty rutting slabs of flesh who are naturally driven…
Those “meaningless little categories” are significantly more meaningful to...
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College #21
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In which I expand on my asexuality after some interesting observations.
I mentioned that I got turned on by a kiss the other night and how confusing this was to me. I’m assuming myself to be asexual and here I am getting turned on, how could that be, right? I was so confused. He was making me feel things I didn’t think I could feel. Well after some more fooling around I noticed...
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Submitted by anon
The other problem with the terms ‘sexuals’, and ‘demisexuality’ is that it assumes there’s some kind of sexual norm - an experience of sexual attraction that is the standard, that supposedly differentiates some people from being ‘sexuals’. This concept of normative sexuality seems to be based on ideas that [people who use the term...
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missvoltairine:
Attempted Danger: “Sexual” and “Asexual” (TW: slut-shaming, rape culture))
outlawroad:
I don’t understand why some sexual people have a problem with being called sexual. I really don’t. And it’s not all of them that take offense to it either. Asexuals don’t use the word as a way to insult or demean people who experience sexual attraction; we use it...
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You can’t split sexuals into heterosexual and non-heterosexual.
You can’t split homosexuals into men and women.
You can’t split women into white and non-white.
You can’t split men into rich and poor.
Just like you can’t split asexuals into heteroromantic and queer.
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'We can't ask them, are you done with the world?':... →
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svartdod:
beware of girls or boys who list “academia” as a valid interest and are searching for someone to have “intelligent conversations” with
I only want to meet boys and girls who are into ~*philosophical conversation*~
I prefer deep conversations myself.
you know.. about the universe,...
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submitted by acci0-sanity
You have a disgusting amount of people agreeing with you
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Anonymous asked: I don't want to argue about demisexuality and whether hetero asexuals are queer, but: do you just not believe in intersectionality, then? 'Sexual privilege' can exist, just in the same way that a gay man still has male privilege and a straight woman still has straight privilege. Homoromantic asexuals have a harder time of it than homosexuals, because of society's...
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Demisexuality: I Am So Confused →
demisexuality:
How does my identifying as demisexual offend or threaten you/your identity? How is it that I, a person none of my followers and anyone else who finds this tumblr have ever met in real life, am somehow harming you with how I identify?
I do not understand why people get so upset over demisexuality…
It’s because there is nothing special about “only being...
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trigger warning for rape.
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trigger warning for prostitution